The greatest gift you can offer another person is simply to know the truth about that person.

The greatest gift you can offer another person is to finally and fully realize in your own mind that the life in question began long before it assumed its earthly body and will continue long after it has laid that body down; to know that the life in question is vibrant, powerful and eternal - regardless of any temporary illusion to the contrary.

And then release the details.  Humans have no business dabbling in such things.

The greatest gift you can offer another person is to finally and fully realize in your own mind that the life in question has been granted full access to the infinite riches of an infinite universe; to know that the life in question was born of infinite abundance and therefore can be nothing other than infinite abundance - regardless of any temporary illusion to the contrary.

And then release the details.

Such prayers of consciousness are the most powerful prayers on earth.  They liberate the giver.  They liberate the receiver.

Such prayers of consciousness dissolve our unfounded egotism, shatter our illusions of control and restore each of us to right relationship with God.